Red's post
I find this action distressing... Transparency hey? A transparent view of covered up facts, perhaps. As it stands, this is looking like a poorly executed act that may result in a community fracture....
View ArticleChampagne and Benzedrine (Roland Hulme)'s post
Where are we getting this 'without warning' stuff from? When I got mean and bitchy in my argument with Toy Girl, I had private messages sent to me telling me to rein in my behavior. Based on that, I'd...
View ArticleBritni TheVadgeWig's post
Yes, people are being diplomatic here. How many people are willing to give up their free sex toys and walk from the community? I am. I've posted on my own blog, will complete my last review for EF, and...
View Article~LaUr3n~'s post
I've lost count of the amount of people who are straight up leaving, not to mention the amount that are withdrawing from the forums/community. Category: Updates and feedback
View ArticleHolly (Woman Tribune)'s post
I cannot agree with Saraid more on this issue. I have spent all morning reading this thread, other threads, Epiphora's blog post and all of the threads in their entirety that she had mentioned in her...
View Articletim1724's post
I'm confused. I've tried to figure out what Epiphora did to anger/annoy people, and I really don't understand what it was that she did. I think a clear description of the offending behavior would make...
View ArticleTitsMcScandal's post
"It's hard for me to accept "because we say so, and that's final" without any links to forum posts, comments, etc. to back that up." -tim1724 Exactly! You don't want to say who complained about her?...
View ArticleElodie's post
I slept on this before mentioning it specifically, because I, like so many others, am afraid of what might happen. But you know? This is supposed to be a sex-positive site. If I'm willing to talk about...
View ArticleSaraid's post
I know it's been linked already, but in case you missed it she explains it all here: [http://www.heyepiphora.com/2010/05/what-the-fuck-edenfantasys/] Category: Updates and feedback
View Articlegone77's post
I get why EF banned Epiphora. I've seen examples of the behavior they ascribed to her. No, I will not scour the forums to provide links. I don't have the time nor am I inclined. I get why EF opted for...
View ArticleBellaGlitter's post
Good for you, Britni! I just can't fathom being as outraged as people are claiming and still wanting to stand behind them just for free toys. Especially knowing that at any moment, it could be YOU on...
View ArticleJustYourAverageGuy's post
I have created a poll to summarize everyones opinion on the topic. View/Vote on it HERE Thanks. Category: Updates and feedback
View ArticleKeeshia's post
You know.. I was going to post something long winded but I just don't have the energy for it. So I'll just give you a summary. Here is what I expect from EF and the community: - Be an ADULT. - Have...
View ArticleTuesday's post
I have a suggestion that might help in the future for contributors who have issues with other contributor's posts/comments. On another social network I use, next to everyone's name under their avatar...
View Articlesophie2229's post
I would feel much more comfortable voicing my opinion in this community if a representative from EF would comment here as to the reasoning behind denying Epiphora a warning before her account was...
View ArticleBritni TheVadgeWig's post
Yes. I actually came to this thread to make almost this exact post. I find that administrators and mods are so quick to speak up on every other thread in the forum, but on this one, they're oddly...
View Articlecarnivalesq's post
To respond to your earlier comment, I am going to be finishing my outstanding EF review and leaving as well. There is a limit as to how much I will just ignore, and I really should have walked away...
View Articleimp's post
Abrasive, abrupt, harsh comments yes I agree. If EF felt the need to post a thread explaining why a member was removed the so be it. I may be well unpopular for being blunt myself but to be quite...
View ArticleChampagne and Benzedrine (Roland Hulme)'s post
Amen; great comment. Category: Updates and feedback
View ArticleEvoluchun's post
I know first hand there is alot of drama all over the internet but for people that plainly go out to start drama that can be avoided and people who make sure to do just that deserve to be banned. As...
View ArticleDragon's post
It's the weekend! They deserve a bit of a break... I personally think they absolutely should not give a detailed reasoning of why she's gone. That would be a huge invasion of privacy. They listed her...
View ArticleBritni TheVadgeWig's post
This went up on Wednesday night. Category: Updates and feedback
View ArticleAdriana Ravenlust's post
But shouldn't Epiphora at least have gotten a reason? She was told less than we were (in this thread). Category: Updates and feedback
View ArticleDragon's post
Yes. I absolutely believe that Epiphora should have been given and the opportunity to respond. Adriana, I'm willing to bet that you went to Epiphora's blog and read that she feels as if she wasn't...
View ArticleBritni TheVadgeWig's post
And I know that you went to Epiphora's blog (you commented; a comment which had quite a different tone than your comments on this thread do) and read that she *wasn't* given a reason. Gary's post may...
View ArticleAdriana Ravenlust's post
I'm not arguing about the time frame. The staff could very well be waiting for things to settle or be mulling things over the weekend or not be planning to comment at all. Nor am I asking for an...
View Articlesophie2229's post
All I want, even if it's in vague generalities, is for an EF employee to admit that this situation was handled badly. I just want to know that I've (we've?) been heard, not ignored. Because right now,...
View ArticleSaraid's post
I totally agree. I think an explanation or an apology is deserved. A lot of people here put time and effort into EF and should at least receive some feedback about their concerns. I personally am...
View ArticleDragon's post
Britni- This situation is more complex than it appears. I do support Eden's right to ban a contributor. I do support Eden's decision to announce it in the forum without elaborating on why they made the...
View ArticleVieuxCarre's post
Here's a novel idea. How about we put on our big girl panties/big boy pants and let it go. Really, it's gone on long enough, people. Category: Updates and feedback
View ArticleElodie's post
If this were a non-profit forum run by a bunch of buddies, I'd probably say let it go too. It's not. EF wants our money, and they want reviewers. You may not be on a salary, but every time you write a...
View ArticleVieuxCarre's post
Perpetuating drama isn't going to solve a damn thing or change anyone's minds OR change what happened. Just sayin'. Category: Updates and feedback
View ArticleMarriedWithToyz's post
* correction: I am sorry it was not Elodie I was relpying to, it was Vieuxcarre! Can't agree more. Everyday is becoming more and more of a case of he said/she said. I feel although I am a newbie I have...
View ArticleVictoria's post
It is our policy to make the banning of contributors public. We did so when we banned Perish and again when we banned Epiphora. The forum post was not an insult but our standard way of communicating...
View ArticleElodie's post
I don't see how giving Epiphora herself the reasons for her banning would be a breach of her privacy. You accuse Epiphora of doing something wrong by defending herself publicly, when you yourselves...
View ArticleJessManifesto's post
Why would anyone think to defend themselves after receiving a letter that states "This decision is final"? It sounds pretty.....final. Category: Updates and feedback
View ArticleDangerous Lilly's post
Are you saying she's outright lying, then, when she states she was never warned in any formal way, or via PM from an employee? I have to agree with Jess, that it's a bit hard to expect someone to...
View Articlesophie2229's post
Thank you Victoria for this well written response, and now I definitely think it's time to move on. Category: Updates and feedback
View ArticleHolly (Woman Tribune)'s post
I have been eerily quiet about this entire situation so far. I have made one previous post before now and had not planned on making another because really, what's the point? Nothing regarding this...
View ArticleHeather's post
I almost flagged your post for being too emotional but didn’t want to upset you. You absolutely have a right to your feelings and no one is trying to say otherwise. Carrie Ann’s flag on Elodie’s post...
View ArticleBritni TheVadgeWig's post
"I am amazed and disappointed in those of you here assuming you have the entire story and assuming what Epiphora is blogging is the plain truth. I can guarantee you don’t know the whole story and I...
View ArticleHolly (Woman Tribune)'s post
Thanks for not flagging my post, I guess, and I completely respect your point of view, as well as everyone else's who has contributed something to this discussion, regardless of their feelings or if...
View ArticleJ's Alley's post
That is the ONLY flag I have always felt was totally useless in every way. Category: Updates and feedback
View ArticleSera's post
I certainly second this. I don't think it's fair at all, either. Category: Updates and feedback
View ArticleSera's post
Good point there. Sometimes I don't feel respected at all, either, by the admin. And I have low self esteem as it is...and I feel humiliated trying to defend myself from them sometimes. I feel like I...
View ArticleSera's post
I was banned for stuff like that. For a month. Then welcomed back. The warnings were for flagging posts that had already been flagged, and for creating a new profile when they deleted my old one....
View ArticleSera's post
I see your point. Should the Bloggess be banned for her sarcastic remarks? Category: Updates and feedback
View ArticleShinKinmotsu's post
I met Epiphora via Twitter. She has been so incredibly supportive of me, my gender identity, and my person. She's not mean, she's just honest, she's admirably honest and incredible, and always there...
View ArticleEmma (Girl With Fire)'s post
I know from personal experience at having had a post flagged, how the disciplinary system is set up when it comes to offensive statements or complaints of that nature. I was made aware that my post had...
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